Q&A | Birth Control, Husbands Job, Baby Name

  • Published: 01 November 2018
  • Q&A | Birth Control, Husbands Job, Baby Name
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  • Milena Ciciotti
    Milena Ciciotti   10 months back

    I’ve been getting a lot of feedback in the comments on the homosexuality question, so I want to link this answer from Ravi Zacharias because this is a topic that needs the right articulation, and he is excellent at doing just that. Please be soft hearted and kind in voicing our opinions to each other as we can all learn something from one another 💛

    • Sort of Christian
      Sort of Christian  4 months back

      @Linda Inês Gonçalves Thank you for actually showing empathy towards us! We love y'all!

    • Sort of Christian
      Sort of Christian  4 months back

      @Abbey J thank you for your comment! I am a gay woman and you have no idea how damaging it is for us to be told we are 'sinners' or that we must remain celibate for the rest of our lives! Even when we are told that we are loved as people but our sin is hated it drives us into depression and shame.

      I wish religion would just embrace us and stop being so ignorant to the real struggles we face. I'm getting tired of it. We just want to be told we are allowed to be ourselves without guilt. None of this "love the sinner, hate the sin" garbage! It hurts and it drives us away from Christ.

      Either religions accept the LGBTQ community and embrace our differences, or people will continue to leave churches and the word of God.

    • Sort of Christian
      Sort of Christian  4 months back

      Hans Banana this gives me hope. Although racism still exists, majority of the population is not racist. I estimate that in 10-20 years, ALL churches will affirm the LGBTQ community. We are not hurting anyone for who we love and are intimate with. Accept us or realize that people will continue to leave churches in droves.

    • e546a 850
      e546a 850  6 months back

      @Hans Banana It honestly saddens me that you don't know God nor do you understand. You have been brainwashed by society to think a certain way. You think, "society says this so it must be right".
      I honestly feel sorry for you.

    • Hans Banana
      Hans Banana  6 months back

      Emma S. This isn’t a game first of all. And I do know the Hebrew texts. And I have read the Bible many times. The verse you just gave about treating slaves with respect is in the Bible and I don’t deny it. I’ve read it. But it directly contracts the one about beating your slave. Saying you can beat a slave and then in another verse saying you should respect is a big contradiction. Let’s let go of the beating and the respect part just for a second and take in the fact that the Bible condones slavery in the first place. Owning a human under any circumstances is wrong. The fact that you don’t have an issue with the Bible condoning slavery in the first place is concerning. You don’t know me. When I was a believer the Bible was my life. Not to mention I was required by my parents to study it. I enjoyed it even then. But I know how the Bible was written. How they chose the books that would and wouldn’t be canonized. You can believe in the Bible if you want. I don’t care. Just remember just because you believe in the Bible doesn’t mean you’re more educated in it. Most of my family believes in the Bible and yet they admit they have never actually read the whole thing. Just verses their pastors told them to look up. I’ve read the Bible many times. And just because you don’t like what I say doesn’t mean you can claim I haven’t. And typically I’m not so snippy but you randomly commented on a comment of mine that was from months ago.
      Also I love how Christians say they are so moral but they think people who simply don’t believe are going to burn for eternity. Is your cognitive dissonance so strong that you can’t see how utterly messed up that is. According to your beliefs if a rapist rapes and murders a 12 year old but later repents and gets “saved” he gets to spend eternity in heaven. But if that 12 year old happened to be an atheist he gets to burn for all eternity. I’m done talking to you. You defend slavery. That’s fucked.

  • Sharon Ng'ang'a
    Sharon Ng'ang'a  2 weeks back

    I agree with what you say about soulmates but one thing I’d say is that even if God has something specific laid out for you, it doesn’t remove the choice, you can still choose whether or not to do what He says or to partake. Btw, I really enjoy your videos and just keep doing what you’re doing!

    • Daphne Cano-Aviles
      Daphne Cano-Aviles  1 months back

      A little late on commenting lol buuuut, I love, LOVE this outfit ❤😍😇

      • e546a 850
        e546a 850  2 months back

        I agree that some people just want to ignore the Bible and want to have different interpretations of the Bible based on emotion, but some people have interpretations that are well-founded and shouldn't just be immediately dismissed as "well you're just questioning God."
        I, for example, lean more 'egalitarian' when it comes to marriage, and I don't think that submission in marriage is one sided. And it's not because I have no reason to think that or I'm just "dismissing it because I don't like it". When I read Paul's letters I am careful to consider that a lot of what he said has cultural implications. I make sure to keep that in mind whenever I read his writings, and therefore I keep that in mind when reading Ephesians 5. I think a lot of Christians make the mistake of "cherry picking" when they consider the cultural context in some passages and then completely dismiss it in others. In not saying that cultural context affects the meaning of the passage every single time, as some things he writes are universal and aren't really "cultural" (ie homosexuality) but we need to be careful not to throw cultural context and knowledge away in case it *does* affect meaning.

        • Dixie Hull
          Dixie Hull  2 months back

          You have some very interesting points. I am not sure if I agree, but I love how you backed up your opinion and you have given me a lot to research and look into. Keep up the good work!

          • Rachael Rutten
            Rachael Rutten  3 months back

            Well said on relationships 👏🏾👏🏾

            • Kelsey Hatch
              Kelsey Hatch  3 months back

              Also, about the whole natural family planning thing - yeah girl! birth control is so nasty in what it does for your body and i had pretty much the same experience you did. check out the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility and Tempdrop (a wearable thermometer that is SO easy to use and VERY easy for breastfeeding moms). Tempdrop has changed my life when it comes to family planning. (And there's also a Facebook group attached to Tempdrop that is SO helpful.) My husband and I have not gotten pregnant and it's been three years since I've been off birth control (and we were not trying to conceive).

              • Kelsey Hatch
                Kelsey Hatch  3 months back

                love your videos so far! i'm catching up on your old ones first :) just a comment, which you can take it or leave it, but i've been listening to health and nutrition and pregnancy podcasts for the past 3-4 years and done a LOT of research on nutrition especially during pregnancy and i'm urging you to not be a vegetarian (especially not a vegan) not only for your own health, but especially for any future children you may have. if at the very least, to not be a vegetarian/vegan while growing another life inside you. nutrients growing babies need are found only in animal products, and if they don't get it during pregnancy, there can be issues later on once the child has been born. i am completely against animal cruelty, so i get where you are coming from, that's why i try to only purchase grass-fed, organic, no hormones, pasture raised, etc. Anyway, just my two cents in case no one has ever brought it up yet :)

                • Claudia Barchilon
                  Claudia Barchilon  3 months back

                  Picking and choosing parts of the Bible is so common. I’m so glad you brought that up!

                  • sophie norris
                    sophie norris  3 months back

                    What lipstick are you wearing i'm totally obsessed!!! Every video i watch i'm always in love with your lipsticks and its inspired me to wear lipstick everyday now <3

                    • likaself
                      likaself  4 months back

                      Natural Family Planning, that's the way to go, good on you.
                      Chemical contraception (birth control is such a bad name is it is not about controlling births) is bad for ones health, in fact no long term studies have ever been done. Also many can have an abortifacient effect - cause the death of the newly conceived one.

                      • Gabriela Pereira
                        Gabriela Pereira  4 months back

                        I don't understand, your husband said in the video of her name that it was a subscriber that said "you should name her Alethea cause thats my name", and now you said it was something you have wanted for centuries?? Dont get it

                        • Julia Malinowska
                          Julia Malinowska  4 months back

                          God created woman and man so they can have children. That’s the reason why a lot Christians say homosexuality is wrong, because it’s not „natural“. Because man and man or woman and woman cannot bear children. But god didn’t n made sex just to have fun. And if you’re taking birth control it means you’re automatically cannot get pregnant and you’re having sex just for fun. So I guess it’s not really okey for Christians to take birth Control. A lot of Christians pick things which they want to follow and criticise people who are not following them. For Exempel the homosexuality thing.

                          • Goose K
                            Goose K  5 months back

                            Question. With your daith (probably spelled that wrong) piercing, is it just one ear? If so, a specific ear? I get chronic migraines and have been thinking about getting that done.

                            • Mireia Reverte
                              Mireia Reverte  5 months back

                              Is there anything else besides God that you know about, or will you talk about?

                              • sarah com h
                                sarah com h  5 months back

                                What you think about birth control is amazing. Those pills can cause abortion without people even know

                                • David Chiu
                                  David Chiu  5 months back

                                  WELL said on chemical birth control
                                  ... too many decades of less brave women
                                  neutering themselves to separate marriage
                                  from its PURPOSE -- children

                                  no wonder theres been so much confusion
                                  abt what marriage means -- sure its abt love
                                  but more specifically abt loving someone so
                                  much you wanna combine w/ them to make
                                  more of each other and raise those lil blends
                                  in the proven best environment of commitment

                                  • Hayley Evans
                                    Hayley Evans  5 months back

                                    Unfortunately, it’s very clear how you feel regarding homosexuality, but it seems to me that you don’t want to be honest about how you feel because homophobia is now (thankfully) unacceptable and you don’t want any negative consequences for your channel.

                                    You’re much more conservative than I am, and even though I disagree with you on some areas, such as the concepts of virginity and purity, I still enjoyed your videos for the most part.

                                    However, I could never in good conscience follow or support someone who would treat some people as less deserving of love, happiness and the human right to a family life simply because of who they fall in love with. As such, I’ll be unfollowing on here, IG etc. I hope one day you will realise how wrong it is to deny a person the happiness that you have just because you don’t agree with how God made them.

                                    • Emily S.
                                      Emily S.  5 months back

                                      I think you’re doing an excellent job with all your videos!
                                      I can see by the comments that there’s a ton of controversy and issues, but i want to tell you, sweet lady, that you are doing an awesome job!
                                      You’re a beautiful daughter of the King and it makes me so happy to watch your videos, because you bring so much positivity into my life and I love it!
                                      Love you, sweetheart!

                                      • Muva Kay
                                        Muva Kay  5 months back

                                        Would you rather hear me express my feelings and how I don’t support homosexuality or would you rather have me keep my thoughts to myself?? She did a very good job at not addressing a situation she does not agree with. Just because someone is a Christian doesn’t mean that they have to be perfect and accepting of everything. I’m a Christian, I don’t support homosexuality, but I don’t treat you as anything less than a human being.

                                        • Marjorie McLeod
                                          Marjorie McLeod  5 months back

                                          Nitrates were triggering my migranes!

                                          • Mary Gale
                                            Mary Gale  5 months back

                                            Wow you are really weird girl😳 you may be a great person a good wife and a good mom but all this things you said does not make sense for me... so you don’t wanna take birth control after giving birth... my question is: you wanna have 4 kids and now imagine you have your 4 kids and you don’t want to have more kids but you also don’t want to take birth control. The risk is very high to get pregnant again...and then you will have 5 kids... what if it happens again and again... will you have 10 kids one day??? I mean really? To say that this is gods plan its stupid and i tell you why.. you and your husband make the decision to make children not god. Or do you hear voices from god telling you hey milena make love with your husband?? No its your choice so don’t tell its gods plan. I do believe in god and i think its beautiful to believe in him but some things just does not make sense... you say you don’t wanna talk about homosexuality... that answers the question what you are thinking about. You said it already indirectly. Thats so sad... if you think its ok why don’t you speak out for all this humans out there? If you think its bad then tell the truth... its not forbidden to say what you think or feel. But never forget you will never know how your kids will turn out and it comes always back where it hurts us the most... and thats our children. I can not imagine to have a life focused on jesus thats not realistic for me. I think you live in your bubble and thats just not what it really is in real life...! I don’t wanna hurt you its just my opinion.

                                            • greenhorn
                                              greenhorn  6 months back

                                              i think you are me from another life. we agree on so many things it's crazy!

                                              • greenhorn
                                                greenhorn  6 months back

                                                If you're looking for something to help migraines, try magnesium!

                                                • Rose Baez
                                                  Rose Baez  6 months back

                                                  Ultimately it's not our opinion, its God's word. My opinion doesn't count. I am a believer and I beleive what God says is sin in His word. I also know that God does love the sinner but He is clear on what the TRUTH is, whether we agree or not. We have a right to choose but just because we have the right to choose doesn't mean we choose what is right in the eyes of God. We can't be afraid of what others think of us however, we can do all things in LOVE. Love the sinner, hate the sin and its deception. Blessings

                                                  • Sher Padg
                                                    Sher Padg  6 months back

                                                    Just started watching your channel and I love it! Already made me realize how much of a better Christian that I can and should be! And I wanted to say for all the negative comments..... you can disagree with parts of someone's lifestyle, honestly you will probably disagree with some part of everyone's lifestyle, this doesnt mean that you love anyone any less or cast any judgement❤😊

                                                    • Sydney Caruth
                                                      Sydney Caruth  6 months back

                                                      I know I am late to the game, and you won't see this but I need to speak. Milena, I see comments saying how bad you were to speak about homosexuality a certain way and I see good comments. But I want you to know just like in your other video about sex, it is no ones business what you believe in, your relationship with your faith is with God and God only. Don't let people push you with "It's 2019 we should be past this" and don't be pushed with, "I totally agree with you!". Believe in what the bible tells you and believe what God tells you. Those who unsubscribe over an opinion are not worth it, in fact none of us are. God is worth it, and you spreading his word is worth it.

                                                      • Just Me
                                                        Just Me  6 months back

                                                        Pulling out is a form of birth control too, though, right?

                                                        • Just Me
                                                          Just Me  6 months back

                                                          Pulling out is a form of birth control too, though, right?

                                                          • Kaja Rossavik
                                                            Kaja Rossavik  6 months back

                                                            Aw I love that you want to go vegan❤️ I went vegan a year ago and it is the best thing I’ve ever done (except following Jesus ofc😍😅) love your values!✨

                                                            • ur local loser
                                                              ur local loser  6 months back

                                                              the comments are sad. people are automatically assuming you hate lgbt for simply not supporting it. just because we dont agree with something someone does, doesnt mean we hate the person. my brother is a druggie, in and out of jail, i dont agree with ANYTHING he’s doing but i still love him!

                                                              • lutho matiwane
                                                                lutho matiwane  6 months back

                                                                How are you this cute sis??

                                                                • Lyn Gonza
                                                                  Lyn Gonza  6 months back

                                                                  Girrrl ❤️ 💜 🧡💛💚💙 🙏🏻

                                                                  • Rehhörnchen
                                                                    Rehhörnchen  6 months back

                                                                    I agree with you on the topic about picking a profession right after high school. Im an IT student now, I am 21 years old but I dont feel like this is the right thing for me. I feel very pressured because its been already 3 years since I gratuated high school so Its actually about time to gratuade from college and I know that my family will be so dissapointed in me if I change my profession. Everyone expects me to gratiuade from college soon but I still dont really know what I actually want to do for the rest of my life. THIS IS SO HARD.

                                                                    • giselle caracas
                                                                      giselle caracas  6 months back

                                                                      it’s not you offending, it’s the Word of God that offends people because they are convicted. do not be ashamed of the Lord before men or He is going to be ashamed of you before His Father. we both know the Bible says very clearly in 1 Corinthian 6:9 that no homosexual, along with the many other things that are listed in that passage, will not inherit the Kingdom of God. don’t fear the rejection or opinion of man, fear God and speak the truth! don’t compromise.

                                                                      • Iris BD
                                                                        Iris BD  6 months back

                                                                        You are so inspiring💖 You gave me clarity on something I was confused for 3 years! I love your videos so much keep making faith/life related vids, they are so incredibly helpful😊

                                                                        • Isela Rodriguez
                                                                          Isela Rodriguez  6 months back

                                                                          It would be funny if your baby’s name was my name...(pronounced E-cell-la)

                                                                          • Bailey Smith
                                                                            Bailey Smith  6 months back

                                                                            I feel so compelled to your channel, it’s helped me build up my faith. I love that you’re all natural! I went completely natural when I found out I was pregnant and I ended up having an all natural home birth! So many people asked me about it and I felt it was on my heart to share my journey, so that brought me to YouTube very recently!! If you’re ever interested in finding out about natural childbirth, be sure to check me out! In the meantime, keep motivating because I’m obsessssed with these videos! Xo

                                                                            • Angie De La Torre
                                                                              Angie De La Torre  7 months back

                                                                              I don’t understand why people are mad about her beliefs towards homosexuals. Those are her beliefs. Us Christians don’t choose what aspects of our lives we’re Christians. We are Christians in everything and we believe in the Bible.. Gods laws have not changed.

                                                                              • raveeen raveen01
                                                                                raveeen raveen01  7 months back

                                                                                Not to be rude to anyone but now I know why she avoided these questions.. Scrolling through the comments.. Many are disappointed and angry and some unsubscribed(that isn't the most part)... Everyone has their own opinions on many subjects.. But just because you believe in something doesn't mean the person next to you feels the same way.. The topics in this video are very sensitive and this is why she avoided them.

                                                                                • Melissa-Jane Johnstone
                                                                                  Melissa-Jane Johnstone  7 months back

                                                                                  I love your videos. I try to watch them, but I only saw your videos about two months ago and still trying to catch up. I liked this video and the part of the perfect man. I want to share something that happened to me. A year and a half ago I grew stronger in my religion and I prayed to God to give me a sign when I meet a guy that I can think of being in a relationship. I asked God that the guy needs to ask me to church. The next day One of my closest friends asked me to church and in my mind I was like 'uhm no, you are like my brother, so this doesn't count.' A few months laterI met a man and he asked me to church. We dated for a year almost and it turned out that he was my biggest mistake ever. God givesus signs, but we have freewill. If we ask for signs and God gives them, we should notignore them. Because God knows best!

                                                                                  • Mariaperalta04
                                                                                    Mariaperalta04  7 months back

                                                                                    So excited for your health journey choices! I've been vegan for a year and half, went slowly and I have gotten maybe 3 headaches and used to have them 3-4 times a week too.

                                                                                    • AllGlamour
                                                                                      AllGlamour  7 months back

                                                                                      What are your thought on political neutrality? Especially being a Christian following God's kingdom while having a husband in the military..
                                                                                      I completely agree that God doesn't choose our spouse for us, I think that we meet someone and work hard to make our relationship work while using God's word as our number one guide.
                                                                                      P.s pregnancy look so beautiful on you.

                                                                                      • Layla Salome
                                                                                        Layla Salome  7 months back

                                                                                        I think what Jesus and God teach, before anything else, is love. Even if homosexuality is in some ways portrayed as a sin in the bible, love wins always. Everyone deserves love, even homosexuals. We are all people worthy of love.

                                                                                        • Emilynn Leigh
                                                                                          Emilynn Leigh  7 months back

                                                                                          If you’re concerned about animal cruelty, you should look into ditching makeup etc that’s tested on animals

                                                                                          • Alejandra Cleves Morales
                                                                                            Alejandra Cleves Morales  7 months back

                                                                                            You say you don't have an opinion, but Ravi Zacharias does. Seems like you agree with him, is this true? I don't want to assume your intention but I'm a bit confused about it. (sorry if I wrote something wrong, english is not my first language).

                                                                                            • trisha carter
                                                                                              trisha carter  7 months back

                                                                                              you should follow dr josh axe, i think he claims to be a christian. He also does natural stuff which i love!

                                                                                              • trisha carter
                                                                                                trisha carter  7 months back

                                                                                                where did you get the article on christian view point on soulmates?!